My dear, I'm the mother of Hugo, Anna and Arturo cats. I'm sorry.. You can imagine how they are lovable, friendly, warm. I'm am a lonely woman with my cats who sleep in my bed. That's better than a man who stay in your bed and require the breakfast the day after..My cats sleep with me and the day after they are waiting for the breakfast...after that they don't stay on the sofa for all the day.. they go on the roof, scouting the world, and leaving me ALONE ( without worlds, without questions ). That's great for me. It's different for you?